Love Rained in Chennai!

It was a natural miracle. Up in the sky, a few miles high, a set of dark clouds roared at me.. yes the same dark clouds I was talking abt a few blog entries back... I knew they were approaching... It was historic.. It was just a far dream for me to imagine how water vapour would condense down into a few droplets, large enough to quench the thirst of a drought ridden barren land... Water drops! For it, it was Love... a soft caring touch that makes it forget all the pain it went through.. all the dryness.. all the neglegence.. all the cracks.. all the gaps... 

I was walking down the lane when a big drop landed on my forehead, as I raised my head up.. There was thunder... ther was lightning in the sky... But I knew they wer all trying to wake me up alive... alive into a world of happiness... into a world of comfort..into a world free from hea(r)t strokes... ;-) Into a world of love, peace and harmony... Half drenched in the maiden rain I walked... Dreaming... smiling... hoping... and most importantly with a state of elated bliss.. with each and every single cell in my body boasting... yeah..!! Love rained in Chennai!! :)

Love - The Mystery Solved!

 

I was just trying to define love for a couple of years...hmm...well Love isn't really the thing when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other..!!!! Its really more than that we can ever imagine dear friends.. read on >>

Assume Mr A meets Ms D. B and C are his friends! They are just spectators. 

Lets see how Mr A falls in Love with Ms D! So Ready ? here it goes >>

 

Mr A loves Chicken. He eats tandoori and grilled chicken 3-4 times a week. Green salad with lots of onion and raddish is another fav dish this man eats. He does a combi of these 2 dishes the night before the day he meets Ms D through Sheer natural coincidence. 

Presenting you Ms A! and Ms D! Their eyes lock!

After effect:

Mr A's heart beat increases, he loses appetite and sleep. he has an intense feeling of excitment. He listens to his fav song that night. A few pimples pop up on his face the next day morning and Mr B(The external trigger) says - "Yaar... pimples!!! looks like someone has started loving you!!" That evening he goes to a movie with Mr C in which his fav actress is on lead role.At the end of it he feels his fav actress looks like Ms D! He eats a lot of his fav Diary milk chocolate that night to add sugar to his feelings.

Next day - Mr A falls in love with Ms D. He is on cloud nine! 

How come ?????????

Explanation:

Rewinding to the night when Mr A eats Chicken and Green Salad. Chicken contains Zinc! Zinc is a mineral that aids in the natural production of testosterone! Onions contains a chemical called Allicin which also contributes to increased production of testosterone! Zinc rich raddishes are natural testosterone boosters!! Oh man..  this guy must be on nuts now!!!!! He really is... the next day he meets Ms D.

Experts say that Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone. There you go..!! Mr A is rich w.r.t!!! Thanks to those onions!! He gets attracted to Ms D, as and when their eyes lock!

Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate forms. Studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including pheromones, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, which act in a manner similar to amphetamines, stimulating the brain's pleasure center and leading to side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Wow!!! Thats exactly what happened to Mr A that night!!!  

Overdose of testosterone causes excessive generation of sebaceous fluids that invariably cause pimples and Mr B correctly points it out the next day morning!!! well a man in love mistakes a pimple for a dimple... He happily goes out for a movie with Mr C!! This guys brain is already a juice made out of tiny molecules of chemical-cupids and ends up thinking that the actress looks like Ms D!!!

Adding fuel to the fire.. he eats chocolate. They contain Phenethylamines or PEAs or the Love-Chemical. Phenethylamine is a natural compound biosynthesized from the amino acid phenylalanine by enzymatic decarboxylation and are believed to function as a neuromodulator or neurotransmitter. They help in sustaining mood and also helps in increasing extracellular levels of dopamine mentioned above.Mr A is on a high!! [ You cannot blame Mr C for experiencing all these things himself coz It was Mr A who got him those dairy milk chocolates tat night and took him to the tandoori hotel ] 

Mr A wakes up the next day into a new world and proclaims he is in Love with Ms D!! 

Joke of the century...!! See how he just got fooled by a bunch of freak chemicals!!!

Well the mystery around Mr A falling in love is solved!!! Hope u guys enjoyed the read... see ya..

Oh Oh boy!! wait... forgot to mention a few things.. We just saw the two stages of love.. Lust and attraction.. These are temporary stages... they probably last for a few weeks or a few years.. hmm.. Then confused on how some couples have a long relationship ??? If u wanna know Dont miss this piece >>

Attachment is the word here! Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin to a greater degree than short-term relationships have.

If all the relationships Mr A had or will have are short-term.. No doubt his levels of oxytocin and vasopressin are very low.. And the interesting fact is tat I was not able to google out a single natural food source for these 2 stuffs.... May be tats the reason why they say tat even God cannot make someone fall in love with you and the same reason why Bruce failed to make his wife fall in love with him in the movie Bruce Almighty!!! Simple... :)

tats it.. bye.. :)

Words that changed my life

I have been thinking a lot, for the past couple of weeks.. wrote down a lot about me... typed pages and pages like a mad man... but I wasnt convinced on what I wrote.. was it worth a read ??  But ya.. then I thought why dont I share something which helped induce, a spark within me long back, which led me to what I am today... 

Some 5 years back my friend took with him a print out, to the class room... he said it was really inspiring... Back at the hostel I read it twice.. thrice... may be a couple of times more.. It was really inspiring.. Here is an un cencored version of it... take ur time to read...

My friend opened the drawer of his wife's chest and took a packet of lingerie wrapped with rice paper: “This,” - he said - “isn’t any ordinary package.” . He threw away the paper and he observed the beautiful silk and embroidery. "We bought it the first time we went to New York, 8 or 9 years ago. She never used it. She was keeping it for a special occasion. "Well I think this is the right occasion." He went close to the bed and he put it next to the other things he was going to bring to the funeral home. His wife had just died...

He turned to me and said “Never save something for a special occasion.  Every day in your life is a special occasion.”

I still think those words changed my life.

Now I read more and clean less.  I sit on the porch without worrying about anything.  I spend more time with my family, and less at work.  I use crystal glasses every day.   I’ll wear new clothes to go to the supermarket, if I feel like it.  I don’t save my special perfume for special occasions; I use it whenever I want to.  The words ‘Someday…’ and ‘ One Day…’ are fading away from my dictionary.  If it’s worth seeing, listening or doing, I want to see, listen or do it now.

I don’t know what my friend’s wife would have done if she knew she wouldn’t be there the next morning, this nobody can tell.   I think she might have called her relatives and closest friends.  She might call old friends to make peace over past quarrels.   I’d like to think she would go out for Chinese, her favorite food.   It’s these small things that I would regret not doing, if I knew my time had come.  Each day, each hour, each minute, is special.   Live for today, for tomorrow is promised to no-one.

You're beautiful...

It was a busy week, for we shifted to a new house.. not far way.. to an apartment next street.. The New house is cool... spacious and calm..reverberating with positive vibes.. more over we can see beautiful gals all around..:) see how life can change merely by a house shift.. tat too a few metres away..!!

I strongly believe that the bicycle gal in white salwar who gave me a look the other day should also be stayin somewhere around.. we never know.. she might be stayin next door..!!

Im sure.. life is gonna be exciting(hopefully and in the right sense) in the coming days..

After a late night coffee from Barista we finally settled down.. I lay on my bed with a few men's magazines around flipped open.. 

It was 2:30 AM.. early morning or late night(howevr is this to u) but ma music system still pumped out my fav song -

:

: 

I saw your face in a crowded place,

And I don't know what to do,

'Cause I'll never be with you... 

:

:

Back @ 9:30 PM 

I steered ma bike (I prefer sayin it like tat coz my bike costs more than the cheapest indian car, I should mention it somewher na.. else wats the use!) down the Gemini Flyover... downed the gears from 6 to 1 to stop at the Red Signal Ahead!!!

I saw her on a bike.. but she was with another man..!!

Dressed in my fav peacock blue colour,the  jewels on her dress and the small diamond studded earring she wore wer no close to her shiny little brown eyes.. Her hair unattended waved with the evening breeze.. I stared at her like a hapless little sheep lost in the woods craving for some miracle to happen.. My brain multitasked as I looked at her eyes and prayed that the Red signal never went green.. Or at the say of the magic word "ABRACADABRA" the girl disappears from the his pillion and re-appears at mine.. or the  man took my seat and I took his!(seriouslt I dont mind giving up ma bike for this!!) 

I was near-to-drooling-situation as she looked at my face and gave out a smile... She had the most charming smile I had ever seen on this planet.. I was on Cloud nine..!! This was it.. eyes locked.. our hearts connected! The signal went GREEN! oops it was the traffic signal!! 

I searched for the gears.. I was down from the clouds in no time.. I pressed horn instead of the engine start button.. She moved away from me.. Their bike roared from 0 to 60 in 3 seconds.. SO DID mine...!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Biking was never so thrilling before... The guy who was counting stars on the night sky from the top of Marriott Courtyard saw our bikes streak thru traffic ridden Mount Road.. But I knew tat we would part one day.. and the day is today.. and is in a few seconds..!! There she goes...  

(I Woke up hearing my friend shout) 

But my music player still played..

:

:

I saw your face in a crowded place,

And I don't know what to do,

'Cause I'll never be with you.

Yeah, she caught my eye,

As I walked on by.

She could see from my face that I was,

Fcukin high,

And I don't think that

I'll see her again,

But we shared a moment that

will last till the end.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.

You're beautiful it's true

:

:

Memories...

A dark blue spot appears at the centre of a pitch black screen... The spot grows into a blue marble.. elegant with its turouise blue tint, it turns blue green white mix as we zoom in... Wat could it be other than the third planet of the solar system.. the only planet ever discovered where ther is love(at mars they found only life)... The blue beauty of the universe.. Earth! On the planet is a large peninsular region secured and sometimes threatened by the three great water bodies.. The Arabian sea, The Indian Ocean and The bay of bengal.. On the banks of the western side a small wave dies at the shores of a small villiage.. The village wer I learnt what life is.. what love is... wat friends are.. wat hardwork meant.. wat bunk means.. wat hate is.. wat arrears were.. wat diode links.. wat resistors resist.. wat victory is.. wat failure was... 

Water retreats... 

It retreats revealing the sea bed.. 

blue-yellow-green were the correl reefs

over which

the tuna, seer and the catla

lay gasping for breathe..

watching all these scene was

a white little pigeon on the tree which

only someone on the light house could see.. 

It flew swifting down the shore..

it flew down to the reefs,

to get hold of the orange little goldfish,

tat fluttered over, the rocks revealed

A huge Wave, miles high

slashes down like a pirate krieg

and hits the flying dove 

buffing with its anger spree

You can hear people scream,

you can hear people cry

All of a sudden its all numbness, no feel

A white soft feather is the only thing you can see... 

the december wind took it east

Through the groves it flew.. 

to the acres that taught, what love is to me...

it danced and swirled with the breeze it tripped,

it crossed the pond, it crossed the road

to reach the college compound.

ther was noise.. there was cheer..

two girls stood on the second tier,

their eyes blinked below their thin eyebrows

In their hands was a green little book..

They looked at each other as they flipped it open

my name was written in blue bold gel ink..

Eyes slowly rolled down.. they smiled again, they giggled,

just as they read wats written beneath..

was written in gold glitter red ink - Memories followed by three "."s (dots)

I chose love and I'm Here! - the Option Or Priority Syndrome(OOPS)

"The essence of the film which is about optimism and the power of hope in the lives, and all my life I had a choice of hate and love. I chose love and I'm here"
- A.R. Rahman

Though my head phones were pumping out sound waves that sang the most romantic song of the season, wat really resonated in my ears were these golden words from the Great Indian Mozart who grabbed 2 of those gold-plated britannium statuette..

I chose love and I'm Here!

Guys...!! Thats exactly, wat this fuzzy noise you are hearing abt, www.thetrystwithlove.blogspot.com is all about..! 

I chose love too! tats the exact reason why I'm here...and this blog about love, a memorabilia
compiled pro bono publico, is here!

Now getting back to where I stopped my last post...Yes exactly.. the JAM I was talking about..! Here Lets have a second look at this emotional atyachaar and refresh(does tat really?) ur memory:

"Dont Let Someone Become a Priority In Your Life, When You Are Just An Option For Them..."

Lets do a post mortem of this... Looking for clinical instruments...?? Here they are to ur rescue..



A Prima facie case of Just-Got-ditched! as said by one of ma blog readers..

When obsession towards something rules the heart the brain is a dumb spectator... Love has a deep relationship with chemistry. It creates free radicles within the brain cells that shuffles all our thoughts, causing us to act illogically making us scribble such quotes quoted by some Just-Got-Ditched guy/gal...!

This Option-priority-priority-option thing...Its common.. dont we prioritize things.. we brush our teeth first before having a bath.. so we hav given "brushing" more importance.. PRIORITY!! If someone else is using the wash basin and ur in a hurry.. why not take a bath first n then brush ur teeth.. ??? I know this is a stupid example but still.. brushing and bathing are two options in our lives [really rite ;-)] we prioritize it.. Brushing may be the first priority... but it still remains an option.. u can very well go for the next option...

Did a bulb glow ? or is it still blinking ??????

Now Read it sslooooow:

If someone is a priority in ur life... U have prioritized him/her over ur other OPTIONS.. Without options u cannot prioritize...! So in effect thinking vice versa if you are (just) an option for them, they too are options for you... may be only the chronological ranking varies - u w.r.t to him/her or He/She w.r.t U! SIMPLE!!!

[I know i made it too complex.. see how easy is it to confuse ppl ;-)]

So move on man... Your next option is not tat bad... ;-)

I just hijacked ur Status message!!

Before my post on the most important things I have learnt in my entire life.. thought of preparing you from wat others are thinking about their life.. or in general what they have to convey... through their gestures.. through their body language.. and If you are reading this Im sure you must have seen them... the most common these days...status messages in orkut...

Have a look at the top 75 I selected! 

1. Bored with Life!! [must be a software engineer]

2. I love her :) ;) 8) [love her or loved her.. lol] 

3. In search of destiny!![try a google search..]

4. single [Inviting mode eh ?? ;)]

5. You may have created my past and screwed up my present but you have no control over my future [,said someone else]

6.she had a peculiar way of singing her words that made it easy for me to remember them..words as vivid and luscious as flowers..!!! [poetic..]

7.on a growth phase [definitely a finance freak]

8. Jai ho........ [ a slumdog ? :D]

9. Awaiting my Destiny!! [tats good.. be patient]

10. [sarcastic smile]

11. [sweet smile]

12. Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success [very true] when they gave up. [did they ever ??? ;)]

13. [mixed feelings]

14. Happy 2009!!! [till now... YES]

15. I am the artist that owns the mantle of the earth [Oh U must be the praying mantle eh..] 

16. Today's fortune: You will do well to expand your business [wats sought of business ??]

17. Very very very happy [hey!! found an alien]

18. Finally peaceful [where ???]

19. visit http://www.vaikomvartha.com [friend gets free marketing thru ma blog]

20. http://www.flickr.com/photos/31211317@N07 [ these are cool pics.. have a look at em]

21. oscar comes to india,kerala....jai ho!!!![india,kerala,kollam,anchal,vilikkupara,his house, his drawing room... keep creating more walls]

22. Best of me ...

23. frins are around....but me still alone.. ....nywayz loneliness is always with me...n im happy abt tht...[atleast loneliness is not lonely.. it has U]

24. !! [well said]

25. Wedding bells are ringing.. life goes on nd on nd onnnnnnnnnnnnnnv:) :( [U should read my blog] 

26. visit "http://aadithyansbhattathiri.blogspot.com" and put your comments [do the same here also ;)]

27. " Each Minute of Stress is Wasted Time........ So Enjoy Life Man " [wat?]

28. Keep smilling :) [do that!]

29. Always run faster than the slowest member in the group [shouted a lion from the woods]

30. lonely no more!!>>>here without you<<< [Onsite! ;)]

31. Single [ inviting mode eh ?? ehm ehm!!]

32. Get outta here!!!!!! [oops... sorry]

33.   new guitar  [Im planning to get one too..]

34. think of the fate of the thousands like Salim, Jamal and Lathika [wat about ur fate ?]

35. Every commoner have have a day of celebration, even to slumdog. [lets all celebrate then] 

36. You only have to do a very few things right in your life so long as you don't do too many things wrong.. [else u should not do anything at all]

37. Nothin else matters !! [I can understand!]

38. Dont let someone bcom priority in ur life wen you are jus an option in their life..[but dont you think we are actually prioritizing our OPTIONS ?? so the problem here is having options..not prioritizing!!]

39. ...tRpy aLL dAy! [read my blog and benefit from it]

40. Jst Forget n Forgive,,,,.[forget forget forget... echo!]

41. "A true friendship is one step bigger than a lover" [one step bigger or the step towards ur lover ?]

42. Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans. [the Beatles way]

43. keep hopin for the best............. [all the best]

44. There Is No Way 2 Happiness.....Happiness Is The Way........!! [well said dude.. keep saying]

45. Enjoy Life as much as You can Without Affecting Others Privacy Since Life is in ur Hand [take ur hands off from ur life and hold em firm on the iron bar tats hung on the ceiling.. so even if someone pulls ur leg u can stay in the air]

46. The best is yet to come...!! [tats Positive thinking! and ignorance of the present]

47. Confused... [ya around 6 billion people are]

48. The beauty of an original is in the originality of its beauty. [come again]

49. There is nothing stopping me ... but inertia .. [inertia or rest ????]

50. My life revolves around my dual personality. The lighter side won't interest you and the 

darker side will follow me to my grave. [and my name is Osami ben lantern(name changed for security purposes)]

51. Let there be Light !!! [Let ther be AC too... its summer ahead]

52. "when two people meet and they are happy , i thnk there should be a marriage " !! [show ur happiness in public @ bangalore.. U will automatically get married!]

53. Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. – M.K. Gandhi [Quoted..! so no comment]

54. Narrow escape from Avalanche...[Avalanche!!.. reminds me of the avalanche of electrons that moves from points X to Y 0.000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001 mm apart] 

55. Pursuit of Happiness.....!! [Life, Liberty and the... ]

56. Tu Muskura Jahan Bhi Hain Tu Buss Muskura!!!!! [keep smiling in short!]

57. Never show too much love or concern to anyone...coz...it creates a non curable pain...when they avoid you"... [Read my blog.. it will get cured in a day...! so keep loving as much as u can]

58. Never Judge a man's actions until you know his motives [Caution: stay away from this guy!!]

59. "Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it!!! [true... ehm.. false.. no no its true]

60. "Hope for the best but prepare for the worst" [If the worst doesnt come repend thinking abt the time u wasted making backout plans.. but prepare for the worst!]

61. -a nEw bEgINing [ New begining No: ??]

62. CouRAgE Is SoLiD [Sometimes gaseous.. If u have courage]

63. Entheee.... Njanarinjeelaaa.... Njan arinjilaa.... [He is not in this world]

64. bye friends busy wih studies till board exams so seeya after 21 march [It takes jus 3 mins,5 muscles to login-checkurscrap-scrap-logout in orkut.. njan Guarranty!Skip ur maggy snacks.. it jus takes 3 mins to keep in touch!]

65. Eyes never lie Nor dreams![but some eyes can render you dreaming!!!] 

66. My soul is lost in a desert of solitude. Please give it some room in ur garden of luv [Read my blog... the garden of love is here]

67. may b u wer right,bt u din see i wz lonely..i don want 2 fight,& i m tired of being sorry.. [emotional atyachaar...!!] 

68. Life has no bells&breaks.... [It has BREAKS!! dont they ?? ;)]

69. ice storm!!! [WHERE ??????????????????????? ]

70. naamalinjillatheyakunnu,ragathin muralikayilunarunna madhura nadam pollllll.........[I seeee...]

71. good relns knw each other ..close relations understand each other but gr8 relns stay 4 

ever across time ,distance and money.. [how abt funtabulous relationships ? dont they hv time to think abt nything else??]

72. Now a corporate...!!! [soon they ll incooperate!]

73. One may understand the cosmos, but never the ego; the self is more distant than any star.” [You are watching self discovery channel!]

74. The journey of the Alchemist starts here [ and ends where ?]

75. redefining destiny...[Albert Einstein ka baap!]

And the winner is................................................

"Dont let someone bcom priority in ur life wen you are jus an option in their life.."

For more on this you gotta wait till my next post... Life - Priority - Love - People often get jammed thinkin about all these... my upcoming post wil make a spread out of that JAM!